Extension
It Starts With Us
Nurturing Families (FCS)
Promote Healthy Lifestyles
Diane Mason
Nurturing Parenting
Healthy couple and parenting relationships and resulting family stability benefit the well-being of adults and children. Co-habiting, same-sex, divorced, widowed and single households are the new majority. Stresses on military families are more difficult and prolonged because of the demands on military personnel to serve multiple deployments, frequently in combat zones. Children who live absent from their biological fathers are two to three times more likely to be poor, to experience educational, health, emotional and behavioral problems than their peers who live with their married, biological (or adoptive) parents. In 2013, 25 percent of Kentucky children lived in poverty, ranking Kentucky 40th in the nation. Children who live in poverty are more likely to have learning disabilities and developmental delays. Furthermore, children who start kindergarten with delayed development and fewer assets are by far more likely to repeat grades, get tracked into lower-tier classes and drop out of high school than more advantaged children. More than half of Kentucky’s 56 judicial circuits have some form of mandated divorce education; more such education is needed. County Extension Council and the BCEHA Council have chosen that nurturing families programming is a priority for Boone County families.
Kentucky families are able to:
•Care for the physical and mental health and well-being of each individual over the long term
•Foster the optimal development of children and youth
•Practice parental leadership skills
•Build personal strengths and self-control, interpersonal communication, life skills including wise decision-making.
•Embrace people from diverse cultural and ethnic backgrounds
•Reach out with empathy to people dealing with severe stress
•Access community resources when needed
•Become volunteers to make their community a better place to live for everyone
Increase by 1% number of people who:
•Set and used family rules, routines and limited screen time
•Eat family meals together three or more times a week
•Reduce stress levels, make time for selves, and/or made wise decisions about money, time, etc.
•Play and spend quality time with child daily
•Can identify realistic expectations for child’s tasks
•Report using preventive and positive discipline techniques in response to misbehavior, and set and enforce logical consequences
•Practice skills to strengthen and sustain relationships
•Access community agencies and resources when needed
•Engage in community outreach activities
One percent of program participants:
•Commit to set family rules regarding eating together, limiting screen time, active play and exercise, set routines
•Intend to manage stress; make time for self; listen, talk, bond with family members; read with child daily; teach responsibility in use of money, time, etc.
•Can state realistic behavior expectations
•Can discuss discipline vs. punishment, and preventive and positive discipline techniques
•Commit to using logical consequences for misbehavior
•Intend to contact community agencies for assistance when appropriate
Initial Outcome: knowledge gained in maternal and child health and parenting skills are improved
Indicator:
Number of individuals (parents or caregivers) reporting improved personal skills (such as increased personal strengths, interpersonal communication and life skills to strengthen families)
Number of individuals reporting behaviors that foster the optimal development of children and youth
Method:pre post survey and testing
Timeline: one year
Intermediate Outcome:
Number of individuals (parents or caregivers) demonstrating nurturing attitudes and behaviors by caring for the health and well-being of individuals throughout the lifespan.
Indicator: positive parenting and disciplines are exercised
Method: surveys, interviews, observations
Timeline: two years
Long-term Outcome:
Number of parents and/or caregivers who practice one or more parental leadership skills such as parental empathy, proper ways of establishing family rules, and concrete support their child to develop a sense of positive self-worth
Number of individuals actively engaged in collaborations and programs that build community capacity to nurture families
Indicator: better communities and productive healthy families
Method: observations, surveys, data collection
Timeline: four years
Audience: Parents from the general public
Project or Activity: Tales and Tastes at the Boone County Farmers Market
Content or Curriculum: LEAP
Inputs: supplies, materials, teaching time, marketing
Date: July 2019
Audience: Caregivers of adults
Project or Activity: Ten Warning Signs of Alzheimer's
Content or Curriculum: UK curriculum
Inputs: video, curriculum
Date: October 2019
