At the 2019 State 4-H Horse Show I was reminded of the reason why we as extension personnel put so much time an effort into building curriculum, organizing events, and providing opportunities to youth.  One such example is when a boy who only a few years ago had never gone to a horse show in his life, won a high point award.  To those not familiar with horse showing, this is an unparalleled feat.  To see how far he had come, from a child who had a hard time memorizing patterns, not having the right attire or equipment, and unsure of himself and his horse, to winning not only a single class but the high point award for the entire division, makes one realize how important it is to provide an environment to youth where they can try, fail, try again, and have an opportunity to succeed.  

In a similar, yet separate event. A young man with non-verbal autism had a equally inspiring event.  The young man started his 4-H career showing miniature horses so that he could better control the animal.  Regular sized horses caused him anxiety and fear.  It was common place for him to receive only white danish ribbons.  He had a difficult time remembering patterns, paying attention when the judge was watching, and keeping control of his horse.  However, as he grew older, he overcame his fear of big horses, and began to show in riding classes.  Again, only receiving white ribbons, 4-H was able to provide this young man with a place to compete without alienation due to his abilities.  At last year's state horse show, for the first time, he actually placed in the top 10 of a class.  His mother along with the rest of the show staff couldn't contain our excitement.  He had worked hard, and because 4-H was able to provide an environment that nurtured his interest, he did not get discouraged, and became a proficient rider.  Fast forward to the 2019 state horse show, and this young man with non-verbal autism actually won first place in a class.  Tears were flowing from everyone.  It was apparent how hard he had worked, how hard his mom had worked, and we were all excited that we were able to provide him with the platform that allowed him to grow, improve, and find success.  These are the reasons we put forth the effort so that children like the two mentioned here can learn, grow, develop, and succeed. Success isn't always measured by blue ribbons, but in this case, a ribbon symbolized a journey that took several years, countless trials and heartache, but more than anything a spirit of determination and hard work.